Sindy tried the girls night in too

Sindy has tried the girls night in with her husband crossdressed which is a brave thing to do. Well done Sindy ... Its not for everyone but worth seeing how it feels isnt it?

We've had 3 or 4 girls nights in and i'd love another as mentioned to bring down the wardrobe and have a dress up make up try on session and offload some of the dresses and maybe the wife will want to claim a few back.

Maybe my wife feels like this too although has told me I'm nicer to her when I'm “Davina” or when I'm en fem but Sindy tried to be involved and talk casually and pretend her husbands dressing didn't bother her... But it always did and probably does to my wife also.

I've been here too and again no doubt my wife is thinking shut up you're thinking aloud as Sindys example “I'll never forget my husband making a flippant comment about women's jeans one afternoon and how we get the stretchier more comfortable material. It was harmless and said in light conversation - yet all I could think was 'he shouldn't know these things!”
I've been out with the wife and her friends talking heels, makeup etc and they were amazed at my knowledge but not for a minute did they think OMG he must crossdress as I've said quite the opposite as I told them I crossdressed and they played along before concluding “As if YOU'd crossdress!”

I also don't know why this is harder for some women than others as Emma RG in the guestbook seems to have had a eureka moment and is enjoying the crossdressing and it's also spurned her back into her dresses and heels with some nice and encouraging comments from Emma.

Sindy continues “I wince. Cringe. I want to put my hands over my ears and yell 'la la la la' to block it out. I totally get why your wife can know you're a crossdresser, she can even logically support that you're a crossdresser, yet any hint of this reality and she's likely to freak completely out. It just doesn't mesh AT ALL with how she sees you. And this is how I also feel”

This is a stage in acceptance where some stop and some move on.. Some women will want no part in crossdressing wont want to know discuss or see it and some move on as my wife did to wanting to know when I dressed to avoid it then made that leap of faith and came upstairs and met me dressed and realised it wasnt so bad.. but that I needed a new wig,

Sindy has been through some hard feelings as shes said”When I tried to mesh it together I seriously considered divorce. Again, I can't explain why”
Its social conditioning and something which can be overcome with good communication and realisation its not as bad as you think if as Sindy calls it your other half is the “Davina type crossdresser” that is if you trust what i'm writing about.

We're normal men but we just happen to enjoy a bit of escapism in the form of crossdressing..
Reading Katies guestbook post on what she'd want sumerised in the blog Sindy has this to say which again is encouraging..
“I'm actually really grateful that you've written this (Kate) and you've listed what you would want from your wife, as not only is this good information to have as who knows, maybe I can handle a few things here and there, but I've thought for the longest time that my husband is STILL trying to get me involved despite how bad things went in the past and this at least validates that I'm not imagining this lol. I guess people are always seeking acceptance from those they love. I wish he would stop though. I really do. I accept he does this, but even after chatting here I just can't be a part of it right now. Or maybe ever again, Not unless he wants me to see him as someone else, and that someone might not be able to remain my husband”

I think Sindy has come a long way from picking her pornstar name (you'll have to go back to April in the guestbook to get this lil in joke) to become Sindy the wife of a Crossdresser and I see the encouraging signs in our chats and take it as a positive that she may do some of the things Katie dreams of for her husband but Sindy is at a point of acceptance and has to be comfortable at the stage shes at and might remain there and her husband will have to greatfully accept that but saddens me to read the last part “Not unless he wants me to see him as someone else, and that someone might not be able to remain my husband”
Having read what Sindy has said about her husband I think he would be happy to stay at this level of acceptance and may want more but if this is where they are and it works he'll be happy with Sindys acceptance but playing no part but maybe do some of Katies wishes .. This however may be an encouragement which would make her husband attempt to push the boundaries again but coms need to remain honest and open and it does no harm to ask Sindy from time to time are you ready to move onto another level and see me dressed or still the same as you never know..
I'm glad this blog is helping some of the women readers come to terms with some of this and also feel free to use me and Katie as a sound board and again I'll try to get my wifes thoughts involved.
It would be good to hear off Sindys husband also either on here or via email ..