Why should a wife accept crossdressing?

The answer is it’s entirely up to her to accept it or not but she cannot stop it but maybe can control it, make it so she doesn’t see his crossdressing or that he has to dress away from home in a hotel or when she’s not there etc but to the crossdresser this is a kick in the teeth after gaining enough courage to admit that he is a crossdresser and can lead to a bit of resentment but the crossdresser also has to realise this is not a normal behaviour (frustratingly wish it was accepted).